Bun in the Oven
Dear Charlie,
I’ve been together with my girlfriend for years and really love her, but neither of us has wanted to make a commitment. Last week we found out she was pregnant and she’s keen to keep it – but I’m not. I think we’re too young to throw our lives away. What on earth should I do?
Dan, 22
Dear Dan,
The most important thing here is that you are both 100% happy with your decision. It might be a good idea to speak to other young parents, or get advice from somewhere that specialises in this area. Your relationship may also need discussing, as it sounds like you both want different things. Best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
Playing it Straight?
Dear Charlie,
Since I got to Uni I’ve started hanging out with different people, including a couple of gay guys. I’ve had a few flings with girls before, but nothing serious and now I find myself fancying one of my new bloke mates! Should I tell him? Am I gay or straight?
Richard, 18
Dear Richard,
University is a great place for discovering yourself. Just relax and work things out in your own sweet time. Meanwhile, just enjoy spending time with your friend – if he likes you back the sparks will fly in no time. If you’re interested, it could be worth contacting the LGBT Society for further advice.
Two can play that game
Dear Charlie,
I’ve always got on well with my best mate’s girlfriend, but I’m beginning to think I fancy her. We had a cheeky snog the other day while he was away and I can’t stop thinking about her. I don’t know what I should do, I feel pretty guilty but not enough to confess all.
Nick, 20
Dear Nick,
Talking to her would be a good starting point, so you can find out where you stand. If you decide to take it further, at least you won’t be alone in breaking up the friendship. However, you must decide how important your friendship is and whether you’re willing to lose it over a girl. As you said, this is your best friend, is a girl you ‘think you fancy’ worth it?
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